Monday, September 12, 2011

bfp

Well I got the call on Saturday and they said it was a good high number, I am pregnant. It doesn't feel real to me.

The excitement of the news has been somewhat dulled by the constant reminders I get from seemingly everyone that it could still end in miscarriage. My father in law told me to be cautiously enthusiastic. Really? I have been the one who has dealt with every disappointment for the last 2+ years, do they all really think that I am the one blind to the risks? I don't need or want everyone reminding me of the possibility of miscarriage, I know it is there. If it comes to that it comes to that. I can't control it but I don't need the worse case scenario thrown at me with EVERY SINGLE conversation that I have. What ever happened to the power of positive thinking?

6 comments:

  1. That's awesome!!!! Congratulations!!!!!

    Ignore them. Sure, things can happen. But, what I've learned is that you need to embrace the positive and celebrate it no matter what. Don't worry about worst case scenarios. Be as happy as you can be!

    Congratulations!!!!

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  2. Congratulations-awesome news!!!! Ignore the negative comments. Try and embrace the fact that right now you are pregnant..don't spend it worrying obsessively over the what ifs and maybes!

    Enjoy it!!! xx

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  3. OMG congratulations!!! I agree, ignore them. Worrying about things won't affect the outcome of this pregnancy, so you might as well just enjoy every second. So happy for you!

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  4. Amazing news! I am so happy for you!!

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